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Deep boning?

Dear Midge,

Does the vagina ever “pack out” or is it going to hurt every time my boyfriend goes deep forever and ever?

Sincerely,

Too Short

Dear Too Short,

While the vagina doesn’t “pack out” per se, there are a few things that can help make the hard boning more fun for you.

First, if you aren’t used to it, it will take a bit of time to get there. Second, and I can’t stress this enough, work on the angle. No one likes their cervix rammed, and that’s what is happening here. That’s why it’s uncomfortable. A slight upward angle of the penis will hopefully avoid this problem. Tell your boyfriend that when he is thrusting, to think of the tip of his penis meeting your bellybutton.

It actually helps stimulate the G-spot as well, which is usually 2-3 inches inside the front wall of the vagina. You can feel it when aroused as a spongy area. It responds best to a very firm pressure, so this kind of penetration can have a double bonus!

I hope this helps!